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  • Setting Goals without the S.M.A.R.T.s

    I’ve been keeping a secret for ten long years and it’s time I finally come clean. Brace yourself because this is going to be controversial and unpopular… … I hate the S.M.A.R.T. Goals method. I hate it.  Unfortunately, it has not only been shoved down my throat since my time in the military, but now…

  • I Stopped People-Pleasing and Started Living

    I was a people pleaser and I didn’t even know it for a long time. I feel like most people pleasers don’t realize that their actions and inactions sometimes stem from deeply reinforced core beliefs, such as “No one likes you” or “You’re not enough”. I even threw in “You’re too much” just to add…